| Blacks are experiencing racism daily I was in Polokwane, Limpopo, on Saturday afternoon when I drove past an ordinary South African scene. Thousands of children were playing in several school fields. Parents were packed around the fields, watching rugby, track and other sporting activities. The parents yelled and whooped, encouraging their children. It was incredibly touching, and incredibly human, and it made me smile. As a parent, I identified with the pure human and parental instinct to encourage one's children. But something was wrong. Everyone was white. The children, the parents and teachers were all white. I stopped and looked. There has been anger by many at the barbaric video made by four University of the Free State students. The video shows elderly black workers being abused by the students in what they outrageously claim was their contribution to debate on integration at the university. Several times last week, as the outrage swelled, people wondered aloud how young people such as the four racist students in the video, raised in a new country, could do such a thing. "They are not from the apartheid era. They don't even know what apartheid was like. How could they do this?" one asked. The answer goes like this: Fourteen years after South Africa shook off the shackles of apartheid, the truth is that petty racism is alive and well in this country. The truth is that, for black people, racism is an experience lived almost daily. It is in simple things, such as utterances that are thrown about without a thought that one's countrymen are offended by them. It is in crude eruptions like the UFS video, the victims of which did not speak out until now. It is precisely because so many of us live with the reality of racism, so powerfully with us, everyday, that we have vowed never to reduce ourselves to the level of the racists. That is why so many of us are outraged that those who claim to know the pain of exclusion on racial grounds can suddenly be sanguine about the Forum for Black Journalists kicking whites out of a meeting. It is not right when it is done to us. It is not right when it is done by us to others, either. But why did those kids stage their horrible act of racism at UFS? It is because, to a very large extent, scenes like the one I saw in Polokwane are considered "normal" by many whites in South Africa. Those children have been to white schools all their lives, they live in households where their parents never nod towards the horror of apartheid and they only mix with other whites. Sure, the tournament could have been for Afrikaans- medium schools only. But where are the coloured children who speak Afrikaans? The head of the SA Human Rights Commission, Jody Kollapen, said last week that many white South Africans were reluctant to apologise for apartheid and its horrors, often saying that it was not intended or they did not know what happened. Kollapen went on to say that no conversation about the past, beyond the limits of the Truth and Reconciliation Commission, took place in South Africa. This, he said, meant that South Africans did not start with a common understanding of what went wrong and how to go about rectifying it. The scenes at the whites-only tournament , and the eruptions at UFS, are precisely because many white South Africans still do not believe that black children can take up places besides their (white) children in the classrooms. The white children have ingested their parents' attitudes. Phumla Gobodo-Madikizela, author of A Human Being Died That Night, once said that many South Africans walk into a room and do not ask themselves why they are the only white people in it, or the only black people. The reason those kids at UFS abused those black men and women is simple. Their parents never took them to schools, or neighbours, or friends, or restaurants, where they walked in and saw black people and white people together as equals. Those kids are racists because their parents and their schools and the U F S, consciously or unconsciously, raised them racist. And they raised them racist because they have never acknowledged that they were once — and perhaps are still — racist.
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